How do you do a proper BUDGET and what is the Snowball Method to get out of debt

[Family Guy]

A lot of this will look familiar to Dave Ramsey fans. Mostly, it is common sense, but it just helps to hear it from someone or see it spread out in front of you when you need to come up with a plan. Use at your own discretion, consider this the opinion of the author only.
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Budget and Re-evaluate:

When in rough times (or just to re-evaluate what you're doing with your money) the first thing to do is re-learn to do a budget. Also, don't worry about your credit, you won't be using it--it'll straighten itself out in the process. DO NOT go to a debt management service. They can no longer get your rates down significantly. Also know that interest rates ARE NOT your enemy, budgeting and spending habits are. If you're blaming rates for your situation, you will not get out of it.

List every dollar you spend during the month. It’s very easy to “subscribe” to this and that service or feature. You can $20/mo yourself to death these days without even knowing it. Can you save any money by giving something up? DVD rental program, cell phone, cable/cable package, long distance on your home phone, other phone options, consolidate your checking accounts if you have more than one, drop DSL for dial up, stop eating out, never drive through...take a close look at everything. Also, look at your insurance. Maybe cash out a universal/whole life insurance policy to go to a term policy for more coverage and less $$ per month? Does your W4 at work have the correct number of deductions? If you get a refund at the end of the year, you probably need to adjust it. It’s easier to keep your money by a well filled out W4 than to get that money back from the IRS at the end of the year.

*For student loans, if you must, you may obtain forbearance due to temporary financial difficulties. This might give you a leg up in the meantime, but know that the interest will continue to accrue and when you start up again the payment will be adjusted. This isn't ideal, but it might be worth doing that for a year or 6 mo. (if possible) to get back on your feet. A student loan in forbearance does not eliminate this debt from your budget if you apply for a mortgage.
You need to do what you can to build up an emergency fund---remember, you won't have any credit cards catching your slack, so you need $1000 or so put away for emergencies, not just for spending. Emergency car repairs, insurance deductible, medical...Put it out of sight.

Then, learn to budget by priority, monthly. It's just a good way to not miss anything as well as knowing that the priority items are taken care of. The lights will stay on, there's a roof over your head and food on the table. List everything you spend money on, leave NOTHING out or you won't have money for it. Assign it to a Level number, and then put them in order. Don't skip!:

Level 1: shelter-- mortgage/rent, daycare
Level 2: food, water---budget your groceries by week & KNOW how many weeks there are in this month.
Level 3: utilities. electricity, natural gas, gasoline, BASIC PHONE SERVICE (drop long distance if you possibly can), strip down cable (lose it if you can, I couldn't) CELL PHONE DOES NOT GO HERE
Level 4: insurance. Don't hurt your family/spouse if you die. Convert whole/universal life policies to term for a fraction of the cost. Re-evaluate your medical and auto for room for savings. Shop around.
Level 5: cash. You have to keep some to fill in the gaps. We used $40 ea a month. This was for anything that came up, or snacks on the road, lunch, paying the school for things that came up for our son etc. Not fun money; this is a small catch-all for those things that just seem to come up.
Level 6: credit. List your debts in order of balance, not importance to you, and not by rate. Pay minimum on everything, snowball your payments starting at the smallest debt and moving up (see below). Until these are ALL paid off (other than the mortgage), you are always sending out the same amount of money each month. More and more gets applied to the next bill as one gets paid off. Even if you get to jump start this by selling that car, keep up with it. No cheating.

Pay things in order of level, from 1 to 6. NO SKIPPING, NO CHEATING. It's a lot harder than it sounds, but it works and you'll always have a place to stay, heat, power and food. Live by priority. When you get down to level 6, Credit, you use the Snowball Method.

The Snowball Method:

No, you’re not just paying minimum on everything, but you are paying the minimum on everything but the smallest debt. You work out your budget to pay an extra $50 or whatever you can do *every month* on that smallest debt. Always the same extra amount, no up and down just because the minimum payment went down since you made some headway. No paying extra one month to get “yardage” to pay less next month. Again, you put these in order of BALANCE, not RATE.
You payments are something like this:

By balance (other than the mortgage, work that later):
20,000 student loan, $200/mo
10,000 car note $250/mo
$4000 credit card $95/mo
$3000 credit card $95/mo
$2000 credit card $65/mo
$400 credit card $30/mo
$100 credit card $25/mo + $50 extra (for example)

total: $810/mo

At first you pay min on all, but the $50 extra on the smallest. Then, when that smallest card is paid off, that $25 + $50 you put in ADDITION to the $30 on the next debt up the list for a total of $105/mo on that one. When that's paid off, you add that $30 + $25 +$50 to the min payment on the next one up. Until debt free, you always pay out $810/mo until you get to that top debt which is getting the full $810/mo by that time.

You see progress because the debts are falling off fast which is probably the most important thing. Without that, you'd never finish. Interest rates are not the problem, the spending habit and borrowing habits are the problem. Getting OUT of debt is 70% psychological and only 30% financial. You need the fast goals of paying off from the bottom up so that there’s not only a light at the end of the tunnel, but marker lights reminding you that you’re on the way out.